Keeping The importance of Togetherness in the Family

 Indonesia Oreo research conducted on 500 women in several major cities in Indonesia including Jakarta, Bandung and Surabaya, showed that 98 percent of women agree that the importance of time together or together with family. However, the research conducted in May this year, also showed that 98 percent of the 40 percent who took the initiative or activity proactively to realize the family gathered on a regular basis. Meanwhile, the rest did not do anything.

"Globally discovered phenomenon alone together, or a situation where when families gather they actually are busy with gadgetnya respectively," said Ita Karo-Karo Fernandez, Marketing Manager Oreo Indonesia on a talk show with the theme "Mothers Work, Family Still Number One "in Jakarta, Thursday (20/11).

Continuation, that 8 out of 10 mothers believe that it is a motor or drive to bring the family together is the mother. By doing so, the role of the mother is very important to be able to realize the time management and quality time with family.

"The family has a very significant role to the development of the child. Where the family is an aspect of nurture (environment guidance) which is closest to the child and contribute 70 percent of the development of the child," said Efnie Indiranie, Child Psychologist.

By doing so, the family togetherness is very important for the physical and emotional family ties can still be awakened. As a mother it is important to keep the family together, even though the mother is also busy working.

"A mother who works should have the skills to manage time, disciplined, able to share the role with her husband and is able to control the emotions," said Efnie.

If the mother can show irresponsible attitude towards the family, the children are in a period of growth and development could follow the example and grow into someone who is responsible as well.

"When children see that even though her mother has a busy, but still could find time for themselves, then it will continue to stick at him and could make it grow into a person that is responsible as well. In addition, if the mother works children can grow up to be an independent figure and discipline, "said Efnie.